Beautiful Health

 

The December 2011 issue of Glamour magazine has an article in it that put a bit of a lump in my throat.  The writer, Sarah Hepola, had the guts to tell the real side of boozing.  Her article, “20 Things You Notice When You’re Not Drinking,” (pg. 236)says every thing I’ve ever wanted to say, but didn’t dare, because frankly, I have only been on one side of the glass.

CB005657Sarah was there.   She loved how “liquor with a big bow” made her and her friends “light up inside like a Christmas tree.”  She loved the glamor of party dresses and martinis but the alcohol began to take its toll.  As Sarah put it “I loved losing myself in alcohol, but I was starting to loose myself, period.  And so I quit drinking.”

Alcohol has never been a temptation for me.  Even more so after I started dating my husband.  He loved to party.  In high school his best friend got drunk and shot himself in the head, after his father did the same 2 weeks prior.  Their deaths were horribly painful for him and a major eye opener.  He quit drinking all together and  I did not have a sip of even wine for years in support of my husband’s abstention.

Eventually I allowed myself to enjoy a tasty drink from time to time but never to excess.  And all through the years I painfully watched others make utter fools of themselves.  You now you’ve hit a low point when you are hitting on your friend’s wife, IN FRONT OF HIM.  As Sarah puts it, “People aren’t attractive when they drink a lot… even the most devastating woman at the party looks bad falling off a bar stool.”

All of Sarah’s observations, like it is nearly impossible to find a man hot when he is slurring his words and you are sober, I wanted to say so many times, but didn’t dare.  I never felt I had the right to, since alcohol was never my weakness.  I never felt the peer pressure, or at least never gave in.  I have never felt the need to drown away the pain or become more charming or clever.  Right or wrong, I held my tongue.

So before you go to that next Christmas party and get sloshed, think again.  Don’t take my word for it, take Sarah’s.

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Nov 042010
 

My sweet Joseph brings us our gratitude for today.  He is our tender hearted worshiper with a ton of energy and a lively spirit.

No longer the Thanksgiving Bunny Rabbit!

No longer the "Thanksgiving Bunny Rabbit!"

His feather reads “I am thankful for choir.”  I asked him why he was thankful for being in choir and he said it was because he got to sing and stand up for the Lord.  Ahhhh, the heart of a 7 year old!

Psalm 100

A psalm. For giving grateful praise.

1 Shout for joy to the LORD, all the earth.
2 Worship the LORD with gladness;
come before him with joyful songs.
3 Know that the LORD is God.
It is he who made us, and we are his;
we are his people, the sheep of his pasture.

4 Enter his gates with thanksgiving
and his courts with praise;
give thanks to him and praise his name.
5 For the LORD is good and his love endures forever;
his faithfulness continues through all generations.

Early Thanksgiving Treats

Thanksgiving is not a day, it should be a lifestyle.  To celebrate today, I surprised the boys with an early Thanksgiving treat, a simple pear and berry cobbler.  This is super easy and fast to throw together, and I was able to use up a couple of very over ripe pears.

Loris Berry & Pear Cobbler

Lori's Berry & Pear Cobbler

Here is the ‘Recipe’:

1.  Pre-heat oven to 350 degrees.  Spray the bottom of a tart pan (basically a shallow pie plate) with a non-stick cooking spray.

2.  Spread a layer of frozen berries in the bottom of the tart pan.  Top with 2 ripe pears cut into chunks.

3.  In a small bowl combine about 3 Tbls. butter, 2 Tbls. flour, large handful of brown sugar, 1/2 cup oatmeal, 1 tsp of cinnamon and just a dash of cloves and nutmeg.  Use a fork to combine until mixed and crumbly.

4.  Sprinkle topping over fruit and bake in oven about 20 minutes until bubbly and slightly golden.  Serve warm or cooled.  With ice cream or a little whipped cream is extra yummy!

Yummy and has some nutritional value too!

Yummy and has some nutritional value too!

Joseph enjoyed his early Thanksgiving treat with our new turkey friend at his side.

Joseph, the cobbler and our yet to be named turkey.

Joseph, the cobbler and our yet to be named turkey.

Be grateful for the Sweet Privilege of Praise!

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Jun 262010
 

Part of living a life of beauty is helping it be a little SWEETER for others.

Last night two of my sons were baptized.  They each made their own personal decision to live their lives for the Lord Jesus Christ, and we wanted to celebrate!  Some beautiful friends and family came out to celebrate with us, so the boys and I wanted to treat them with a little thank you gift.  What better way to treat than with sweets?!  Hey a beautiful life knows there are times to be disciplined and eat healthy, and there are times it is OK to indulge just a little.  :)

The Favor Boxes the Boys and I put together

The Favor Boxes the Boys and I put together

So we decided to make fudge.  And well, Lori can’t just make one kind of fudge, she has to make two and add in an option for the friends with chocolate/wheat/dairy issues.  :)   I had requests for the recipes for one in particular so I thought I would post it for everyone, and for myself included because, like many times, I altered it as I was making it.  I will also post links to the other two which were great as well.

Lori’s OUTRAGEOUS Candy Bar Fudge

Lori's OUTRAGEOUS Candy Bar Fudge

Lori's OUTRAGEOUS Candy Bar Fudge

For the Bottom Layer:

1/2 cup butter

1/3 cup unsweetened cocoa powder

1/4 cup packed brown sugar

1/4 cup milk

1 1/2 cups granulated sugar

2 cups confectioner’s sugar, sifted

1 teaspoon vanilla extract

  1. Line an 11″x7″ baking pan with aluminum foil and spray lightly with cooking spray.  This will make it easier to remove the fudge from the pan later and cut it.
  2. In a heavy sauce pan combine butter, cocoa powder, brown sugar, granulated sugar and milk.
  3. Slowly bring mixture to a boil, being careful to stir constantly and not scorch the chocolate.  Once the mixture has come to a boil, remove from heat and stir in the powdered sugar and vanilla.  Use a hand mixer to cream the mixture to ensure there are no lumps.
  4. Pour the chocolate fudge into the bottom of the prepared pan.

For the Middle Layer:

10 individually wrapped caramels, unwrapped

1 1/2 cups butterscotch chips

1 tablespoon water

1 cup chopped salted cashews

1 1/2 cups mini marshmallows

  1. In a microwave safe bowl, microwave caramels, butterscotch and water and microwave on medium power until they have melted.  Stir and check frequently so you don’t scorch the butterscotch.
  2. Stir in the cashews and marshmallows and firmly press mixture into pan on top of the fudge.
  3. Place pan in refrigerator to allow this layer to firm up a bit.

Top Layer:

1 cup semisweet chocolate chips

In a small microwave safe bowl microwave chips until melted.  Spread melted chocolate over caramel layer.  Continue chilling until firm, about 2 hours total.

To Serve:

Use the aluminum foil to lift fudge from the pan and place on a cutting board.  Peal foil away from sides.  I used a large bread knife to make long smooth cuts through the fudge, pressing down firmly.  Do not “saw” the fudge or it will crumble.  Enjoy!

The other Recipes

They definitely deserve credit because they are also each very good, they were just out shined a little.

Pure Chocolate Fudge & Almond Butter Cookies

Pure Chocolate Fudge & Almond Butter Cookies

For the Purist:

I made a creamy chocolate fudge.  I used this recipe and made minor changes.  I decreased the butter to 2 tablespoons, omitted the nuts and changed the chocolates to 1 1/2 cups semisweet chocolate and 1/2 cup (four squares) of Girradelli’s unsweetened chocolate.

On the Lighter Side:

I made an Almond Nut Butter cookie.  These are great because they not only don’t have any flour, but also no dairy, chocolate or peanuts so they are great for those with allergy issues.  AND a lot of people liked them!  I replaced the hersey kisses with roasted salted almonds and used almond extract instead of vanilla.  Find the recipe here.

Enjoy the SWEET LIFE!!!

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I just prepped enough meat to make at least 24 meals for my family of 5, and I did it in less than 2 hours.

Just writing that out and reading it makes me excited. Being a Mom is complicated these days.  We are running around town taking kids here and there, caring for our homes, running a business or holding down a job, and volunteering at church.  And then we struggle to feed our children and ourselves a nutritious diet while we jump from one place to another and try to deal with food allergies and tight budgets.

This is where I want to spend my time, not standing over a stove all day.  But I also want them to be healthy and strong.

This is where I want to spend my time, not standing over a stove all day. But I also want them to be healthy and strong.

How do you prepare a nutritious meal, quickly, and make sure that what you are feeding them is not chalk full of preservatives, allergens, etc.???  Don’t we all struggle with this???  So many of the quick-fix/ready made/pre-marinated options are just loaded with fats, salt, preservatives, hydrogenated oils, sugars, etc.  But starting from scratch can be so time consuming, or so you may think.

First Key if You Have a Large Family:  Get yourself a stand alone freezer!

If you don’t have one already, it will revolutionize your life!  You can freeze breads, sauces, butter, soups, casseroles etc.  If I make lasagna, I make two at the same time and freeze one. If I make sauces or vegetable puree’s I make one large batch and then split it up into small portions and freeze them for later.

Now, you may say that you can not afford one.  I understand, but all the more reason to start saving your pennies now to get one because in the long run it will save you money!  I wanted one so bad, I asked for one for my birthday & Valentine’s Day.  I will NEVER regret that decision.

Back to the Meats

I went to Costco today and loaded up on them in bulk packages.  I purchase organic whenever I can, and our Costco carries some organic meats.  I purchase the fresh meats as a lot of time the pre-frozen ones have added preservatives to give them a longer shelf life in the freezer.  I got two whole chickens, a package of chicken breasts, chicken thighs, beef stew meat, tri-tip, and two small roasts.

I am not a huge fan of dealing with raw meat, so I like doing a big batch at once and getting it over with for a while.  I start by pulling the meat out of the package and washing the chicken.  Then I separate the meat into gallon zip-lock freezer bags, enough to make about 2 meals per bag.  I will later cook all the meat at once and then use half as leftovers, like cut up left over chicken for a chinese chicken salad.

Gallon Freezer Bags, Pre-Labeled

Gallon Freezer Bags, Pre-Labeled

I pre-label the freezer bags, it is easier when they are empty, with the date, type of meat and general idea of seasonings.    Then I line up the bags on my counter so I can read the “style.”  Next I start dumping various marinade ingredients in the bags.  This part might intimidate some but is very forgiving.  I use whatever I have laying around, salad dressings, fruit or fruit juices, jellies, herbs, flavored oils, alcohol, BBQ sauce etc.

Stew Meat for the Crock Pot and Tri-Tip for the BBQ

Stew Meat for the Crock Pot and Tri-Tip for the BBQ

What do I put in my Marinades?

The basic ‘formula’ I use generally.  It is a HUGE approximation :

1/3 fat oil

1/3 liquid

1/3 seasonings

Raid your pantry for marinade items.  Get creative!!!

Raid your pantry for marinade items. Get creative!!!

Like I said, this does not have to be scary if you are not used to cooking much.  It is pretty difficult to really botch it unless you go to crazy with the Cayenne Pepper or something.  Things you can think about when making a marinade is “what is the meat and what do I generally like to eat and drink with it?”  For example, chicken is really nice with a light white wine and a fruity salad.  Well then, toss some white wine, orange juice, marmalade, and salt & pepper into your zip lock bag.  Like to have some beer or tequilla with your mexican food?  Well try throwing some in with your meat, along with some salsa, lime juice, chili powder and cumin.  How about putting some red wine, onions, garlic olive oil and soy sauce in with your tri-tip steak, just like that steak you have at the steak house with the grilled onions on top.

I've got a nice variety of flavors going here!

I've got a nice variety of flavors going here!

Seal them Up

Once all of the seasonings are dumped in the bags, zip them closed after you let out any air.  Then squish the bag around to mix the seasonings in with the meat.  Next they are ready to toss into the freezer.  I like to make sure the meat is spread out in the bags and spread the bags around in the freezer so they can freeze evenly.  Once the bags are solid, I stack them up.  This not only helps them freeze faster, but also thaw faster.  I also don’t try to freeze everything at once.  I put about half of what I got today in the freezer and the rest in the fridge.  I will put the second half in tomorrow.

This Mexican mix has beer, cumin, chili powder, garlic olive oil, hickory smoked oil, tabasco sauce & mango preserves.

This Mexican mix has beer, cumin, chili powder, garlic olive oil, hickory smoked oil, tabasco sauce & mango preserves.

Time to Eat!!!

All you have to do is pull a bag out of the freezer the day before and throw it in the fridge.  The meat marinates as it thaws overnight in the fridge.  The next day it is ready to throw on the BBQ, in the crock-pot, or in the oven.  And I must say that it seems that freezing the meat helps the marinade penetrate the meat more thoroughly.

I don’t know if this method actually makes the meat taste better, or I can just enjoy it more because dinner was less stressful to put on the table.  No matter the reason, I’m sold and won’t be changing anytime soon!

Happy Healthy & Stress-free Cooking!!!

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A trim body, great complexion, and shiny hair are not just signs of superficial beauty, they are also signs of inner health;  the health of our mind, our spirit, our heart, our entire body.

A healthy mind, heart and spirit are reflected in a bright smile,  sparkling eyes and an  attitude that brings warm-fuzzy love to everyone it meets.  A life of fitness shows in our posture, our figure and our energy levels.  A life of nutritious eating can be seen in luminous skin, strong hair and finger nails….  Real beauty, the kind that does not require pounds of makeup and countless plastic surgeries, truly is reflected from the inside out.

The Goal? Get Over Yourself!

What is my mantra when working with any of my clients in organizing their closet, or teaching a new makeup technique, or giving advice on a healthy lifestyle?

Simplify your life to the point that first thing in the morning you get yourself together, you read & pray,  you exercise, you get dressed and do your hair and makeup, and then you leave your bedroom and never think about yourself for the rest of the day.  You are then free to love on everyone else and not be constantly wondering…  “Does my hair look funny?” “I bet she thinks I’m  fat,”   “Gee this skirt is too tight!”  “Ugh, I’m too tired to read my child a book…”

Living a life that values our health shows that we  value our life.  Caring for our health by eating nutritious foods and exercising are signs that we  want to care for the bodies that God so graciously and lovingly designed for us.  It is all part of a lifestyle of worship.  We don’t worship the body, but we worship the God who  made it.  When we know that we were created for a purpose and live our life commissioned by God to do the work assigned to us, it should be a logical conclusion to take  care of the fragile vessels given to us to do it in.  We are then free to truly get over ourselves and focus on what matters.

As Shouts  Arise by Jamie Bottoms

As Shouts Arise by Jamie Bottoms

Lori’s 5 Keys to Beautiful Health

Here are the  5 areas in my life that I find contribute to  my overall health and allow me to live a more beautiful life.

  1. PEACE for my SOUL  –

    Every morning, as soon as I am awake enough and before I let myself check e-mails or do a load of laundry I open up my Bible and read a chapter to let myself get centered with life giving words.  I pray in my spirit much of the day and flood my ears with praise  and worship music every chance I get.   Then I get my tushy to church EVERY Sunday to be encouraged and edified.   This all helps keep some of the ugly side of my personality at bay and keep me focused on what is important in life.

  2. SLEEP for my STRENGTH –

    If I don’t get my beauty sleep I am a mess.  I am cranky, I move slowly, I think slowly, and if I let it go for too long my immune system  wears down and I get sick.   I know my body and how much time it needs and I let it have just that.   If you need to get up super early in the morning, know your limits  and don’t let yourself stay up late at night wasting your time and brain power watching garbage on TV.   At the same time, don’t make yourself sluggish by lazily sleeping in past your  needed time allotment,  too much sleep can slow you down too.

    Organic  Lavender Peppermint Aromatherapy Eye Pillow

    Organic Lavender Peppermint Aromatherapy Eye Pillow by Besem Natural Scents

  3. FOOD for my BODY –

    My philosophy for a good diet means to the best of my ability,  but not to the point of adding stress and worry, I avoid foods high in sugar, bad fats, packaged  & processed foods, artificial sweeteners, preservatives & fast food, and I eat foods that are organic, and go  for lean meats, lots of colorful fruits and veggies and whole grains.

    Heirloom   Cosmic Purple Carrot

    Heirloom Cosmic Purple Carrot from Azure Dandelion

  4. ACTIVITY for my ENERGY –

    This one is not my strongest point but I attempt to keep my activity level up by making it fun for me.  I like to stretch while I am taking my steaming hot showers,  run up and down my stairs as I go throughout my busy day, take my children on physical outings like hikes, and find the time whenever possible to dance around my house with the music blasting.

  5. ORGANIZATION for my SANITY –

    Disorganization sucks my time if I waste it hunting for a misplaced item or haveing to make unnecessary runs to  the  store because I did not properly plan ahead of time.  It sucks my energy if I am constantly trying to catch up instead of taking the easy way of maintaining.  It makes extra work  dealing with all of the ‘stuff’ in life and it stunts my creative flow as I end up focusing on the ‘mess’ instead of the  people and the talents.  To keep my life organized I plan my time very carefully by doing things like keeping shopping lists and have specific times that I go to the grocery store, pre-preparing dinners for nights that I know I won’t have much time so we avoid last  minute fast food runs,  have chore checklists for my children so they know what I expect of them so we avoid the stress of arguing  about getting things done, and having a designated place for nearly everything in the house so that even my 4 year old can help me put away laundry because he knows where to put Daddy’s underwear and the dish towels.

Well, I could go on on these subjects for days, but then, that is my goal.  I hope to write more posts  on a lifestyle of beautiful health because I do feel it is necessary for any stylish girl and goes right along with a lifestyle of faith and worship.

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