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Last night I dreamed I was in a field filled with shoe racks.  They were in a bit of disarray, but nothing close to the clearance section at Nordstrom the other day.  We could hardly see the floor through the mounds of shoes!  In my dream there were at least 3 different styles of red leather boots that I was oh so anxious to try on.  Oh, to dream!!!

More Keys to Buying Success

Can you tell I did not check the red snakeskin boots off my list on Monday???  I have had those boots on my list for years now.  I had to dump my beloved first pair because I wore them till their death.  That is OK.  Incomplete success is not failure.    That is one of my Power Buying principles;

#5.  Keep a Running Shopping List.

Actually keep several of them.  You can have lists by specific stores, specific categories of things (kids clothes, groceries, beauty products, etc), or however it suits you.  I keep my lists in my phone’s “Reminders” section so it is always on me to update and reference as needed.

#6.  Eyes on the Budget.

There is nothing like the guilt of buyers remorse to ruin the satisfaction of a great day of shopping.  Before you open those doors into the shiny land of temptation, have a very clear idea of what your budget is and don’t cross the lines with your purchases.  Budgets are tricky things and they are something you should be very realistic about.

If you need a great quality pair of stylish and comfortable pumps to wear 3 days a week at the office, you are going to be hard pressed to find what you need at Payless Shoes.  Those shoes are an investment and require a bump up in the budget.  You may need to consider cutting something else off of the list to make room for the power pumps.  At the same time, just because you think you NEED a Coach handbag, does not mean you really do.  There are lots of great quality bags out there at lower price points.  Wisdom is knowing that putting yourself in consumer debt, or a compromised position, over a handbag, is complete nonsense.

#7.  Map Your Plan of Attack.

When you combine your shopping list with your budget, you can work on a map of stores you plan to visit that day.  Plan your route around your key store.  We knew we wanted to go to a mall because I needed to go to Macy’s and Victoria’s Secret.  We chose one of our two favorite malls because it also had the Ecco store my husband needed to go to to find his golf shoes.  Your list may not include a mall, but map a route based on your highest priority purchases for the day.

Once we got into the mall, we headed straight for a directory, located all of the different places we wanted to go to and then mapped the most efficient way to get to each one with out zig-zagging all over the place.  We went to a mall out of town after Christmas that was small enough that this did not really matter, but in big malls, you will save your feet and your strength if you do this ahead of time.

#8.  Reward Yourself.

Remember the pretzel?  Again I say, Wetzel’s are the best!  Give yourself a break and take a quick breather in the day middle of your excursion.

And Finally, in my third installment, I we will get to finding and trying on those clothes!

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Would all our shopping expeditions be in a place like this!

Would all our shopping expeditions be in a place like this!

Yesterday on the way to the mall, as I told my husband the best route to avoid the traffic into the parking lot, he said I was a “professional shopper.”  I told him I did not think that I shopped enough to qualify as one, yet,  but that I was pretty good at it.  He lovingly replied with a smile that he hoped someday to be able to fully fund my ambitions.

So we continued on to the glorious haven of brightly lit stores filled with all kinds of delicious things to tempt our senses.  Large red “SALE” banners tried to lure us in to any and all stores, but I was on a mission.  Not a shopping mission, a buying mission.  4 hours, 5 stores, 3 full shopping bags, and 1 pretzel (Wetzels are the BEST!) later, we left satisfied with a productive afternoon together.  We did not shop.  We bought.

“I’m Overwhelmed!”

Today as I sat chatting with my manicurist, she told me how she has been working on cleaning out her closet.  Her philosophy of clothing has changed in the past year.  She is done with the “more is better” thinking (BRAVO), and wants to start shopping for quality pieces.  But now she is feeling stuck.  Her exact words to me were, “I get in the stores with all of the racks, and clearance signs, and I just get overwhelmed.  I don’t even know where to start.”

“Pronti! Ai posti! Via!”

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard this before.  But I can tell you that if I don’t keep my focus, I can start feeling that way too.  It makes you want to turn around and give up completely.  So I thought I would take a couple of days to give you some of my shopping, or rather, BUYing secrets.  Ok, well they are not secrets, but they are the ways to keep my sanity while swimming through a sea of clothes.  Soooooooo…….. here goes!

#1.  Make a List:

Before you hop in the car, or onto the subway, and head to the stores, you need to survey your closet and figure out what you need.  Buying, unlike shopping, has a specific purpose.  Make a very specific list, number, size, color.  This was my list for yesterday:

Gold leather handbag

Dark wash skinny jeans

Dark wash boot cut jeans

Pair of fun, decorated jeans

Long sleeved, fitted, button down, collared shirts (white, black and other)

Black, comfortable bra

Red Leather Snakeskin Boots with low heel

2 watch batteries

Pair of Ecco golf/street shoes for Hubby

2 Pairs of jeans for Hubby

#2.  Get Dressed!

Stilettos, false lashes and red lips may work for strolling through the boutiques on a girls night out, but they don’t work when you are out on a buying mission.  Your feet will be yelling at you all day and you will go home with a strange caterpillar crawling on your cheek next to red streaks of lipstick from pulling blouses over your head.

Wear comfortable shoes that will slip on and off easily.

If you plan on trying on shoes, wear or bring the appropriate socks for the shoes you want, and be sure to bring any insoles you plan on wearing in them.

Have great under garments on.  Nothing can make clothes look worse than a sagging bust line or major panty lines.  A good bra, seamless panties and even some Spanx will help you visualize how things will look.

Wear a button down top so there is one less thing you have to pull over your head.

Look nice.  There is nothing like putting on a fabulous outfit and then looking in the mirror to find a haggard face and a rat’s nest on your head.  It is hard to picture how great something looks on you when you can’t get past the mess.  Go for a clean, fresh face with simple make up.  Stick with a light colored lip gloss to prevent smudging and smearing.

Don’t forget the deodorant!  You may very likely break a sweat!

#3.  Bring a Friend

Having a shopping buddy will help things go smoother.  Finding a sales associate to run and get you another size while you are in the changing room or do a price check for you can be difficult these days.  So having a friend or husband along to carry bags and be a second set of eyes can be very helpful.  Either take turns helping each other out during the day, or make one outing just for you and another outing just for her.

And last for tonight……

#4.  Pray for my Parking Anointing!

I am anointed for great parking spots.  I never have to look long and I always end up right up close so I don’t have to walk very far.  This is a handy thing to have.  Ask and you shall receive!!  Ha, ha!!!  But seriously, I’m not kidding!

Stay tuned for the next installment when we actually get into the stores and find out how much of my list I was able to check off yesterday.

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Do you have a bad taste in your mouth for “New Year’s Resolutions?”  They often seem to get a bad rap.  We don’t keep them very long and then we decide they are pointless or worthless words.  I have made ‘resolutions’ in the past.  Some I’ve kept and some I have not.  Do we throw them out completely because of failure?

As I pondered this question this morning, I wondered if we really have a good understanding of what it means to make a resolution.  I was prompted to look up the definition.

RESOLU’TION, n. (From Webster’s American Dictionary of English Language, 1828)

6. Fixed purpose or determination of mind ; as a resolution to reform our lives ; a resolution to undertake an expedition.

7.  The effect of fixed purpose ; firmness, steadiness or constancy in execution, implying courage.

That is a powerful word.  To have a “fixed purpose,” “firmness,” “steadiness,” …. “courage!”  These are GREAT things!  I wonder how many of our past resolutions failed because we had not fixed a purpose to the words.

FIX, v.t.

1.  To make stable; to set or establish immovably.  The universe is governed by fixed laws.

2.  To set or place permanently ; to establish.

3.  To make fast ; to fasten ; to attach firmly ; as to fix a cord or line or hook.

4.  To set or place steadily ; to direct, as the eye, without moving it

Or maybe we did not fix a worthy enough purpose to the words so eventually they became unimportant to us.  If the purpose is powerful enough, the words will truly be a “resolution.”

Psalm 141:8
But my eyes are fixed on you, Sovereign LORD; in you I take refuge

2 Corinthians 4:18
So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.

Hebrews 3:1
[ Jesus Greater Than Moses ] Therefore, holy brothers and sisters, who share in the heavenly calling, fix your thoughts on Jesus, whom we acknowledge as our apostle and high priest.

I hope you can find a worthy enough purpose for 2012 so that you can resolve to not let yourself be moved.

Have courage, have faith!!!

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New Year’s Resolutions???  Well I don’t tend to make major resolutions, I more like evaluate the year and analyze what I want to do next.  But this year, I am making a BIG one.  In one word, I want to make everything about the Salt & Light by Lori Delisle line more …

…FABULOUS!!!

I am so stoked to make everything about your experience with Salt & Light by Lori Delisle a whole new level of LUXURY, from your shopping experiences to the pieces you purchase.  This year is about giving you the best!!

The Preparation

Part of the my preparations to get the shops and line ready for these great new changes is to clear out a large number of pieces from my current line.  There are now 23 pieces in my SALE section!!  Once they are gone, they are gone for good, so snag them up quick!!

sale . sale . sale

Check out all these and more for some great deals.  All are available in my Artfire and Etsy shops!

Turquoise & Marcasite Necklace - Provision- Originally $230, now $199!

Turquoise & Marcasite Necklace - Provision- Originally $230, now $199!

Sterling Silver and Red Coral Rose Earrings - Rose of Sharon - Originally $17.50, now $15

Sterling Silver and Red Coral Rose Earrings - Rose of Sharon - Originally $17.50, now $15

Sterling Silver and Citrine, Golden Quartz Necklace - Vessels of Oil - Originally $88, now $75

Sterling Silver and Citrine, Golden Quartz Necklace - Vessels of Oil - Originally $88, now $75

Floating Sterling Silver and Leather Necklace - Hooked on Jesus - Originally $45, now $35

Floating Sterling Silver and Leather Necklace - Hooked on Jesus - Originally $45, now $35

Enjoy the Fabulous Deals!!!

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Dec 192011
 

In case you need a little break from red and green right now, here is another winter color combo to brighten your winter!

Blossom

Aaiko knit dress
€80 - welikefashion.com

Gray cocktail dress
$55 - modcloth.com

Valentino high heel boots
£514 - farfetch.com

Betsey Johnson high heel shoes
$130 - betseyjohnson.com

Miu miu handbag
$1,495 - miumiu.com

Alexander Wang fur handbag
$351 - neimanmarcus.com

Sethi Couture oval ring
$3,600 - ylang23.com

JADE_MELLOR Hewn Grey Granite
$87 - notjustalabel.com

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